39ers Aging with ATTitude March 2025

Wow 39ers, Wasn’t it Only Yesterday?!

Happy UN-Birthday MARCH 39ers! ♪ And many more… ♪  We 39ers often look back and wonder
where the time disappeared to … wasn’t it Only Yesterday ... that I posted February's article? LOL Sometimes it feels that way. As usual, I was late to post this, but I promise, our “March Madness” is a work of art! A few more images and links to post, and likely a little editing polish, but we’re havin’ fun now. Let’s get to it …

֎ Celebrating MARCH 39ers ~ And More! 
Oh my, we have a festive full month for you! From National Craft Month to our own 39 And Holding Day party, the month is chock-full of fun … but first … look to the skies—Pisces and Aries lead us into both a lunar eclipse and a solar eclipse—it’s gonna be a busy month for everyone!

For 39ers who Follow the Stars
Even before the Total Lunar Eclipse March 13^th-14^th, dear Pisces (02/19-03/20), you’ll lean into the power of the 14^th’s Full Moon, for examining, revising and cleaning, at home and in business. After all, March 20^th is the 1^st day of Spring and this month, you will shine! That’s not to say, it won’t be tumultuous at times, because with deep cleaning comes change—and lessons. But you’re a creative person and if you put your talents to work, you might find a lucrative income stream. Though you may need to toe the line financially, for a short time around the Solar Eclipse (March 29^th), never fear, it will be worth it.   

       Ah, don’t think you’re going to skate through March on a four-leaf-clover, dear Aries (03/21-04/19)! You, too, will feel the need for an overhaul. Profound self-reflection tops your list mid-month, but it’s all good … eventually. Your sign takes over on the 1^st day of Spring (20^th) and with a little patience, by the 29^th’s New Moon, you’ll be ready for a new beginning. Not only will you see a fresh path, but you’ll know why and how to use it to your advantage. Be firm, but don’t be pushy, and you’ll stride with purpose into April.
       Are you a friend or other loved one tasked with helping your Pisces or Aries 39er celebrate their special but complicated month? You’ll never go wrong with the birthstone that covers them both—March may be turning green, but its lovely birthstone, the sea-blue Aquamarine, soothes troubled waters and helps them “Keep calm and sail on.”

♪ March Golden Oldies Song of Note ♪  

Ah, yes, 39ers, wasn’t it “Only Yesterday” by the Carpenters that made us all feel nostalgic 50 Years Ago this month? March’s Song of Note still resonates today, as more than a mere love song. It invokes memories and melancholy, yet with a touch of hope ♪ … Only yesterday when I was sad and I was lonely | You showed me the way to leave the past and all its tears behind me … ♪    
       Starting its journey up the KENO chart at #36 (March 26^th) was actually a quick trip, as it was only released on March 14^th. KHJ/Los Angeles and KENO marked its rise fairly evenly, putting the sentimental ballad into the Top 10 by the end of April. It was a slow, but steady rise, reminiscent of how memories are made. Give it a listen, then c’mon over for more tuneful vintage tidbits to manifest your memories and keep the Rock Rockin’ from 50 Years Ago this Month!  

֎ More March Fun for Everyone 

So 39ers, what kind of crafter are you? A knitter, a painter, a sculptor, a stained glass aficionado? If you haven’t indulged your Inner Child with art, do it now! It’s National Craft Month. Though no sponsoring link accompanied the date, I found one I think you’ll like! For all levels of crafters and a dozen different ideas, get inspired. Check it out and relax with your favorite hands-on expression of creativity.  

Are you looking forward to tomorrow? Do you smile often? Welcome to Optimism Month! Though the sponsor is likely off enjoying the world, there’s no link, but “calendar lists” have become more pro-active to provide information and history for their listings. Check this out—not only how it began, but some good advice … “It is not as simple as being positive and looking on the bright side, but that’s a start.” Absolutely! I’m optimistic that you’ll find some awesome tips!

Sunday ~ March 9^th: Right up there with the whole debacle of current politics, Daylight Saving Time is about as controversial in a conversation as you can get! Today’s the day (or rather, middle-of-the-night) when we set our clocks ahead one hour so we can enjoy longer days for summer. Welllllll, that’s not the real reason, but it works for me! Wouldn’t it be fun for a poll to ask whether we should continue changing twice per year, as is, or abolish it and keep one or the other—but then, which one?! Ah, the complexities of life …

March 13^th-14^th:  Are you ready for some Full Moon Magic* in the heavens? Not only will we betreated to a Full Worm Moon, but the moon is giving us a show with a total lunar eclipse! Between midnight and 6:00a (EDT) *“All phases of the eclipse will be visible across all 50 U.S. states (including Alaska and Hawaii), Canada and Mexico.” Cool. Even better—the moon will totally vanish between 2:26 and 3:31a (EDT). Sorry, chances are you won’t see me at that time, but still, for night owls, what a sight! There’s xxxxxx on whether the Full Worm Moon speaks of earthworms or larvae, but both become active about now. The Cree people also call it the Eagle Moon. Whichever you prefer, enjoy its power and magic.

Monday ~ March 17^th: Faith ‘n’ begorra*, it’s St. Patrick’s Day! It’s been said for decades, “Everybody is a little bit Irish on St. Patrick’s Day!” True or not, you have to admit it’s a pretty fun day. As I t happens, I am, with an ancestral surname of Connelly, and it’s long been one of my favorite days. A few interesting St. Patrick’s Day facts:
       On March 17, 1601, in what is now St. Augustine, Florida, Spanish settlers and Irish clergy organized the first known St. Patrick’s Day celebration. So when did the Northeast take over? Boston hosted its first parade in 1737, followed by New York City in 1762, in a parade of Irish soldiers serving in the British army who marched through the streets in honor of their homeland.       In the 1840s, the Irish comprised nearly half of all immigrants to the US, especially numerous following the Potato Famine of 1845.
       *Begorrah is a euphemism for the phrase “by God.” You sometimes hear it in the phrase, “faith and begorrah.” It’s the Irish equivalent of an American saying, “by golly” or “by gosh.
       An old Irish proverb: "Bíonn súil leis an bhfarraige" … pronunciation: Bee-un sool lesh on var-igga: meaning: There's hope with the sea / Hope springs eternal. 

March 20^th: Speaking of Hope and Spring … today is the First Day of Spring! A perfect day to meditate on going forward in life. You have exactly ninety days during which we receive an increase in daylight before the June 20^th Summer Solstice, culminating in the longest day of the year. And then, yep, it starts ebbing back until Winter.

Saturday ~ March 22^nd: I know it’s a little-known special day, but hopefully that will change in time. What is 39 and Holding Day!? It’s the day I chose a couple of years ago, to celebrate ALL who are 40+. We deserve a day! We each have “a day” every year on our UN-Birthdays, but this day provides a time we can gather with a few friends, or in a party, or even a community event to celebrate our learned wit and wisdom.     

The link will tell you how and why it came about, but it does need some updates—coming soon! What can you do to enjoy our day? If solo, call a friend! If looking for a party excuse, this is it! Or, make it a community day with an event like I’ll be holding in San Diego. A few local 40+ authors are getting together for an authors’ roundtable, and have invited a community of a senior building to chat about our “Living Legacies.” Whatever you do, remember, if you’re in 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s or more, we’re not our grandparents’ elders. We’re vibrant, fun, and Aging with ATT-i-tude!

Saturday ~ March 29^th: From a Full Worm Moon eclipse earlier, to this morn’s partial solar eclipse, followed by tonight’s New Moon, it’s been a full month of celestial fun! Although we won’t see much of the eclipse in the US, it’s still a significant heavenly event, and remember … (Space.com) it is NEVER safe to look directly at the sun without solar eclipse glasses (primary solar eclipse from 4:50 a.m. to 8:43 a.m. EDT). This is an excellent day to celebrate New Moon Musings and boost your fresh start to April with hope and plans for Spring.

֎ Aging with ATT-i-tude Platitude 
Luck, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder. It’s a joyful lesson to learn as we Age with ATT-i-tude.  ~ L. Rochelle 

Happy UN-Birthday 39ers ~ MARCH 2025 ~ Make Your Own Luck!
       This one’s for you, kids – Steven, Pat (IM), Susan and Jim (IM)!  

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LinDee Rochelle is a writer and editor by trade, and author by way of Rock & Roll. She has published two books (of three) in her Blast from Your Past series, available on Amazon: Book 1 (currently eBook only, until updated) – Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The First Five Years 1954-1959; and Book 2 (eBook, print & color!) – Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The Swinging Sixties. Coming soon (eventually) … The Psychedelic Seventies!

*Important Message: Any data, links, or opinions on this site are for your information only and does not constitute legal or medical expertise of any kind. My proficiency is writing and sensible reporting. Period. All links have been vetted, but as always, please use information, links, or my skewed opinions at your own risk.

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39ers Aging with ATTitude January 2025

Start the New Year with a Laugh in the Rain 

Happy UN-Birthday January 39ers! ♪ And many more… ♪ I’m not gonna lie … I’m on the “elder” side of 39 and Holding. Those of us who are, likely have a different take on life than those who recently turned 40. However, we still share commonalities, like love of family and friends.

You’re never too old or too young to continue or begin your list of legacy items … what are those and why do you need to list them? Even the most austere and die-hard minimalists have at least one item that is dear to you and will likely act as a legacy. By my age, I have way more of those than I can count!

But I urge you to create a list (dated and periodically updated) of those items to keep with your important documents. Making them more than just a “living legacy” (since we know possessions change fairly often), make a description section to tell why it is important to you, and if there is a monetary value, how much it might be worth. Trust me, your family or friends who are left to sort through your life, will appreciate this special touch, directly from your heart. 

That said, I hope you had a wonderful Holiday Season, and still feel the glow as we step into the New Year, with confidence and purpose.

My purpose was, of course, to be on time with this monthly article—for a change. Ahem … so much for that resolution. I’ve worked to shake the Holiday cobwebs from my brain and focus on the shiny, bright New Year before us … let’s do it!

Now, on to something ostensibly mundane, but sooooo important in today’s New World Order. This is your official “AI” notice for the New Year: The 39 And Holding Club site (and soon to be just 39 And Holding (finally able to buy the primary cliché’s “.com” domain!) has never and will never (knowingly) be written or assisted, by Artificial Intelligence. It’s just stupid ol’ “I” and I enjoy writing these articles. They soothe my soul. So why would I hand that indulgence over to an artificial, soulless entity that can’t feel pleasure?! And away we go …

֎ Celebrating JANUARY 39ers ~ And More! 

We’re gonna have a fun start to the New Year, from “Laughter in the Rain,” to an Irish New Year Toast, to National Soup Month! But first … the stars of this month’s show …

For 39ers who Follow the Stars  
Both Capricorn and Aquarius need to know that the January 13^th Cancer Full Moon shows its strength throughout the month and reminds us to focus on our well-being, first and foremost. In, however, uniquely different ways.

Capricorn (12/22-01/19/25) 39ers might feel the need to reevaluate their relationships, both personal and business. Something needs to change, but only you know which may be in jeopardy. Things will likely come to a head by the Full Moon, and you’ll know which path is the way forward for 2025. The New Moon on the 29^th is full of promises for a new venture you’ve been wanting to try or an enhancement to your lifestyle. Make the most of it! 

Lifestyle improvements are on this month’s horizon for Aquarius (01/20-02/18) 39ers, as well. Again, the Full Moon plays a big part in these changes, but don’t be in a hurry. Take time to look inward and discover what has been “off” in your life. This need to change will follow you through the month to the New Moon, when you’ll finally recognize the best path forward for your New Year. It can be transformational! 

♪ January Vintage Song of Note ♪  
A sweet tune of love and laughter is a great way to begin the New Year. Now, and back in 1975 when Neil Sedaka made “Laughter in the Rain” a top tune, sitting at KPOI/Hawai’i’s #5 chart spot. It’s this month’s vintage Song of Note, joyfully cooing, ♪ … Oo, I hear laughter in the rain | Walking hand in hand with the one I love ...  ♪

Composed by Sedaka, lyrics were the brainchild of Phil Cody, who recalled how an inspiration finally unlocked his writer’s block. A short snooze under a tree on a sunny day, aided by just a tad of a doobie, was all he needed ... more tuneful tidbits to manifest your memories and keep the Rock Rockin’ from 50 Years Ago this Month! 

֎ More JANUARY Fun for Everyone  

Ya know, I saw something the first week of January that mentioned the phrase “over the hill,” as if it were a bad thing. Since beginning this odyssey of “39 and Holding,” I’ve thought of “over the hill” as enduring the uphill battle to 40 years and from now on, it’s all downhill! Wheeeeeee!
       Ah yes, the perennial child within. As far as I’m concerned, we’re never too old to have fun. If you’re reading this, then you likely have the same philosophy. With that in mind, let’s see what January mischief we can get into …

If you’re not quite ready for mischief this month, just make yourself a nice bowl of soup on a cold winter’s day, and celebrate National Soup Month! There is no link to a sponsor, but that doesn’t stop me from finding a few terrific homemade soup recipes for you! Mmmmm. Now that we’re fortified …

Left on my own without a supporting link, I choose to interpret Self-Love Month as an opportunity for 39ers to review how you think about yourself and if you’re really giving yourself enough credit for all that you do.           
       As we age, it’s easy to lose yourself in family, work, and life in general. We’ve seen in recent years how our world—locally and globally—can spin itself in a different direction in a heartbeat. This is a good time to reflect on aging and how your present life and those around you, will affect the future you.
       NPR recently published an interesting article about ageism and wrestling with stereotypical behavior in yourself and others. “Experts say that fighting ageism isn't only important to create an equitable and fair society, it also helps all of us live longer, healthier — even more fulfilling — lives.”
       And the Population Reference Bureau gives us a fascinating fact to think about: “In 25 years, almost a quarter of Americans will be over the age of 65.” That’s a lot to chew on!

Monday ~ January 13^th: Look up! We’re ready to embrace the magic of January’s Full Wolf Moon! We may try to hibernate this month and just enjoy our hot, yummy soup, but just like the wolves who howl to meet up with their pack-mates, or coordinate their food foraging, we should use this Full Moon to communicate beyond the obligatory Holiday chats. Much can be gained from honest conversations and sincere discussions. Don’t worry about timing … Almanac.com reminds us, “Traditionally, each full Moon name was applied to the entire lunar month in which it occurred, not just to the full Moon itself.” So feel free to spread its enchantment through the whole month!

Thursday ~ January 16^th: If that’s a lot of serious stuff and your Inner Child is bored, take a break and fly! It’s Appreciate a Dragon Day! If you’re a reader at all, chances are you’ve read a book or two with a cool or even frightening dragon. My Inner Child recalls the dragon-laden fairytales of yore with wide-eyed glee. Just a couple: The Dragon and His Grandmother (aka, The Devil and His Grandmother), Grimm’s Fairy Tales, c.1812-1858; and The Prince and the Dragon  (The Crimson Fairy Book, edited by Andrew Lang, c.1903).    
       Even as an adult, I loved the Eragon series! (Christopher Paolini) Dragon Day’s sponsoring link is pretty cool too, with fun and meaningful dragon names—use ‘em for your fictional writing or make a suggestion to an expecting mom! Like, did you know, “Aiden” means “little fire” in the Celtic language? Coincidentally, the Celts’ mythology inspired “Pendragon,” meaning “chief dragon.” Have fun!

Friday ~ January 17^th: Although a man instrumental to our freedoms and still evident in our lives today, was born on this day in 1706 (d.1790), few recognize Benjamin Franklin Day. Someone took the trouble to establish the day, but it’s abandoned without a sponsor. So let me offer a reminder just how instrumental Mr. Franklin was—without ever becoming president.
      He “… promoted public services in Philadelphia, including a library, a fire department, a hospital, an insurance company, and an academy that became the University of Pennsylvania. … His inventions include the Franklin stove and bifocal spectacles, and his experiments helped pioneer the understanding of electricity.” That’s just for starters. Oh yeah, he was also the first postmaster general and an author of the U.S. Declaration of Independence. 

Wednesday ~ January 29^th: New Moon Musings coming late in the month simply helps us prep for February. Take advantage of the upcoming Aquarius energy and celebrate the month’s New Beginnings, applying your New Moon Musings for an early fresh start. It could help you find yourself in the right place at just the right time. And we know, timing is everything …     

I have turned 39 and Holding too any times to believe in resolutions anymore … however, I do believe in reevaluating my life at the beginning of a New Year to acknowledge what’s working and what isn’t. And no matter my age, I know darn well, I don’t know a darn thing, compared to all that is available to us for continued learning.
       To further my horizons, one site I will be exploring more in the next month or so, is AARP’s SeniorPlanet.org. Their online and in-person community learning courses include how to make a website, tech tips, how to use Zoom, and of course, fitness and wellness, just to name a few. And, they have a social platform for Seniors … I’ll be taking a close look at that. If your interest is piqued and you check it out, let me know your thoughts! (And no, I don't get paid for advertising ...) 

Back to some January fun … a couple of Irish New Year toasts:
May your troubles be less | And your blessings be more | And nothing but happiness come through your door …
       And a personal favorite: Though Dunghills rise and castles fall | we are all equal one and all.

39AHC Public Service Announcement: And, since it’s January 8^th and this article is only now posted, I must say, that last sentiment is particularly appropriate in the light of our SoCal wildfires streaking like a Banshee through thousands of homes in Los Angeles County and beyond. “Firefighters are battling five separate brush fires at once, all of which were at zero containment as of Wednesday afternoon local time.” (ABC News)  
       It doesn’t matter how rich you are, if you’re struggling to pay the bills, or if you’re a sinner or a saint. When a fire (or any natural disaster) rips through what little or a lot that you have, it’s devastating and forever life-changing. My heart and prayers go out to the families of the two people who have already died and the more than 1,000 people who have lost their homes … as of this writing (4:14p.m.PST) … and a lifetime of personal treasures in just one of the five blazing fires—and there is still zero containment. Search, “how to help ca wildfire victims january 2025” for a host of results that you might consider.  

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Whether you’re just turning 40 or have seen many New Years past 39 and Holding, don’t make resolutions … make preparations. Cheers to your best year ever. ~ L. Rochelle 

Happy UN-Birthday 39ers ~ JANUARY 2025 ~ Happy New Year! 
       This one’s for you, kids – Reneé, Erin, Chris, Jodie and Joe!  

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And dear readers, I just want you to know that I try my best to create an informative, aesthetically creative article for you each month. However, Blogger is not a professional hosting site—but they’re free through Google. So we’re stuck with their crummy platform that doesn’t work well to manipulate images with writing, if you aren’t a techie who knows HTML. Trust me, I’ve tried for years to write articles without gaps between paragraphs and even between sentences. Sigh. Maybe I’ll win the lottery and be able to afford a professional hosting site someday. Cheers!

LinDee Rochelle is a writer and editor by trade, and author by way of Rock & Roll. She has published two books (of three) in her Blast from Your Past series, available on Amazon: Book 1 (currently eBook only, until updated) – Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The First Five Years 1954-1959; and Book 2 (eBook, print & color!) – Rock & Roll Radio DJs: The Swinging Sixties. Coming soon … The Psychedelic Seventies!

*Important Message: Any data, links, or opinions on this site are for your information only and does not constitute legal or medical expertise of any kind. My proficiency is writing and sensible reporting. Period. All links have been vetted, but as always, please use all data, links, or my skewed opinions at your own risk.Are you a 39er this month? Welcome to the 39 and Holding Club! Feel free to share your UN-birthday comments below (click on Comments or if it says No Comments, click that to be the first) and tell us how you really feel about your age and aging. Keep the stories coming!

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